tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4695839328432075679.post539148050982857312..comments2023-06-10T04:34:11.621-04:00Comments on A Little Bit of Wonder: The Curtains are ClosedLittle Wonder Laurenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03937473248474032197noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4695839328432075679.post-44359186400968425962011-03-02T20:50:16.423-05:002011-03-02T20:50:16.423-05:00You make me think about why we cry, what we would ...You make me think about why we cry, what we would cry about, and when it becomes private. I'm probably going to get a bit technical here, can't help it being a psychologist:) Also with a little introspection I now have a hypothesis, that we cry if crying can help relieve the pain somehow, but not if it's not enough to do that. Sounds weird that crying could relieve some of the pain? think it does, at least as a way of venting or expressing especially when there is an audience, better, supporting audience. However, when the grief is so deep and strong crying wouldn't help anymore and because no one would really feel/understand the same sorrow as you do it becomes private. Again, it is just a hypothesis. When I thought I was truly in love with someone and he left me I had no tears, there was just silence and deep sorrow in my chest for about two years. But what interests me more is how you became able to share this private feeling and change of feelings with others (including strangers).XYnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4695839328432075679.post-55829173325038725812011-03-02T11:40:32.330-05:002011-03-02T11:40:32.330-05:00Hi Lauren! I'm a new follower... found you on ...Hi Lauren! I'm a new follower... found you on 20SB. <br /><br />I'm more of a cry-in-private person. I don't even like to cry in front of my husband. This is probably due to 2 reasons: 1) I am an ugly crier and am self-conscience about it, and 2) one of my best friends is super-emotional and I’ve trained myself to be the “strong” one. Holding it in too long though often leads to random bawling at cheesy commercials, so I try to get a good cry in every now and then. Usually by watching a sad movie when I’m alone at the house. <br /><br />Anyway, I look forward to getting to know you better through your future posts! :)~April~https://www.blogger.com/profile/00927595932580249523noreply@blogger.com